Monday, March 17, 2014

travel articles: adventurers who left normal life

I read this on one of those instagram picture quote things from a random person (and yes, i know they are cheesy and super girly) but I liked this one a lot, so I wrote it down.

"Sometimes the people around you won't understand your journey. They don't need to, it's not for them."

Someone close to me, who knows me well, and who knew me at a time when my heart and my soul was just so sevilla happy, said something really important to me this past week. He said, "I'm so happy you are doing your thing." I can't begin to tell you how nice and reassuring it is when people affirm that they are on your side and that they support you and love you and believe in what you're doing.

I love travel articles, and this is a mix between a travel article and a piece on bloggers/adventurers who left normal to follow their hearts. I believe that everyone has their path, and right now, I like the one that I'm on, I like this one that's less traveled.

Here's the link to the original article from Buzzfeed.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/laraparker/inspiring-stories-of-people-who-left-normal-life-and-emba


11 Inspiring Stories Of People Who Left Normal Life And Embarked On An Adventure

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1. Jodi Ettenberg, Ex-Corporate Lawyer Now Traveling Food Blogger

Jodi Etternberg
Jodi Etternberg
Jodi Etternberg
After five-plus years of working as a corporate lawyer in New York, Montrealer Jodi Ettenberg decided to pack it up and eat her way around the world for a year. Next thing she knew, one year turned into another and another, and she’s now nearing six years of travel to faraway places. While she jokes that she “eats soup for a living”, she’s not too far off: Her site, Legal Nomads (which she started to keep her mother updated about her travels) houses photos of foods from around the world. Though Legal Nomads is unmonetized (she has turned down sponsored links or ads), Jodi supports herself with freelance writing, consulting work in social media, and, more recently, feeding her hungry eaters when they visit Saigon.
When asked if she plans to return to “real life” Ettenberg told BuzzFeed that she takes things one day at a time. “I am thankful for the ability to have built a business around the foods and places I love, and never quit my job to ‘be’ a travel writer. If this doesn’t work out, going back to being a lawyer isn’t the worst thing I can think of. But it’s far less fun than what I am doing now!” Feed your wanderlust by following Jodi’s adventures on her blog.

2. Liz Carlson, English Teacher Turned Travel Writer

Liz Carlson
Liz Carlson
Liz Carlson
After graduating and teaching English in Spain for a few years, Liz fell in love with travel. However, she ended up moving home to Washington, D.C., and working in a dead-end office job trying to follow the path that she felt as if she were supposed to be following. It didn’t take long for her to realize that button-ups and quarterly meeting weren’t for her. The nine-to-five scene was becoming suffocating and she could feel herself growing increasingly unhappy.
She knew she had to do something about it, so she did. After deciding to pursue writing, she saved up and quit her job to travel and has been on the road ever since From camping with the Bedouins in the desert in Jordan to paragliding in New Zealand, she’s fully embraced having both a life filled with travel, while also encouraging others who might want the same that it is possible. Carlson told BuzzFeed, “Anyone can do it.” Learn more about Liz and her ongoing adventure by visiting her website.

3. Ying Tey, Felt a Sense of Urgency to Start Living After Mother’s Death

Ying Tey
Ying Tey
Ying Tey
When Ying was just 18 years old, her mother died. “Death,” she said, “is a great teacher. It reminds you, almost mockingly, that everyone is stamped with an expiration date.” She was left with grief, but a sense of urgency accompanied that grief. The sense of urgency to start living.
With this urgency in the back of her mind, it didn’t take her long to realize that her time spent in the corporate world would be short-lived. After just three months, she packed up for good. During this time, travel blogs were rare and Malaysian backpackers even more so. Sixty-six countries and two passports later, she’s holding down a copywriting stint at an advertising agency in Singapore but told BuzzFeed that the flames of wanderlust have yet to die down. “It lies dormant as I embrace stability for the next few months. As soon as my bank account starts getting healthy again, I will heed the call of the open road again. After all, I’m just an average girl from Malaysia yet I was able to wander. If I can, so can you.” Feed the flames of your wanderlust by visiting Ying’s blog.

4. Yasmine Mustafa, After 22 Years in the U.S., She Became a Citizen and Left on Her Own Terms

myasmine / Instagram
myasmine / Instagram
myasmine / Instagram
Yasmine Mustafa immigrated from Kuwait with her family during Operation Desert Storm when she was 8. She became entangled in the immigration system, worked numerous under the table jobs, started a tech company, and when she finally became a U.S. citizen at 31, she booked a six-month trip around South America to experience the freedom of traveling and to find out who she was without her laptop.
She traveled solo from May to November 2013 where she visited Ecuador, Colombia, Argentina, Chile, Bolivia, and Peru. Yasmine told BuzzFeed that her life’s path has long been restrictive due to circumstances beyond her control and for the first time in her life, she had the opportunity to steer away and do exactly what she wanted to do: travel.This is only just the beginning. You can learn more about Yasmine and her adventures by visiting her personal blog.

5. Robert Schrader, Once a Victim of the American Economic Apocalypse, Now Makes a Living Traveling the World

Robert Schrader
Robert Schrader
Robert Schrader
A few years ago, Robert faced a dilemma. “I wanted to travel the world,” he told BuzzFeed. “But I didn’t have the means to do so, financially or confidence-wise.” Robert Schrader’s journey began in 2009, when he fled the American economic apocalypse for China. Five years and more than 50 countries later, he makes his living via Leave Your Daily Hell, a travel blog he uses to inspire, inform, entertain, and empower other would-be escape artists. After leaving his real-life job over three years ago, he has made it his goal to inspire others to do the same.
No matter how many friends of family members expressed skepticism toward his grand plan — and nearly all of them did — he remained steadfast in my determination. Robert believes that the surest way to make more of your life is to become more aware of what’s out there- and to expand your definition of what’s possible. The surest way to do that? Travel.
Let Robert help you travel by visiting his website.

6. Katie Aune, Left Chicago to Travel All 15 Former Soviet Republics

Katie Aune
Katie Aune
Katie Aune
Dissatisfied with her job and feeling restless after a decade in Chicago, Katie Aune told BuzzFeed that she decided to quit her job to travel in 2011. She spent 13 months traveling solo through all 15 former Soviet republics, a journey that included running a marathon in Estonia, traveling the length of the Trans-Siberian Railway, desert camping in Turkmenistan, and volunteering in Russia, Armenia and Tajikistan.
After enduring challenging border crossings, dozens of squat toilets, long overnight train rides, and occasional bouts of loneliness, she returned home a stronger, more confident woman with a new perspective and an appreciation for the little things in life. Now back in Chicago working full time again, Katie writes about travel on the side as she dreams of her next great adventure. Follow along with Katie’s future adventures here.

7. Megan Smith, Started Traveling Post-Breakup

Megan Smith / Flickr / xolowercaseyou
Megan Smith / Flickr / xolowercaseyou
Megan Smith / Flickr / xolowercaseyou
For several years, Megan felt stuck in a career path and a life that she desperately wanted to be free of. After a breakup, she decided to hatch a plan. She would work hard and save money for the next year and then take off on a journey by herself. So, in August 2013, she did just that.
She packed her life into storage and took off on a journey that took her across the United States, Canada, Europe, Africa, the Middle East, and soon Central America. She told BuzzFeed, “It’s been an incredible experience so far — teaching me so much about myself, other cultures, the world, and how I fit into it.” Learn more about Megan and her incredible journey on her blog.

8. Kim Dinan, Sold All Of Her Possessions And Traveled The World With Her Husband

Kim Dinan
Kim Dinan
Kim Dinan
In 2009 Kim Dinan lived in a great city, owned a home, and had a good job. Life was nice. But she knew, deep down, that something was missing. She’d always dreamed of traveling the world. At one point, back in college, she’d wanted to write for a living. But somewhere along the way her dreams had ended up on the back burner. So she hatched a plan.
For the next three years Kim and her husband saved every penny and sold all of their stuff. In May 2012 they set out to travel the world with all of their remaining possessions strapped to their backs. “There was definitely a point where I wondered what we were doing, if we hadn’t both completely lost our minds,” said Kim. “My mom kept begging me to use the money we saved to buy a bigger house! But of course that wasn’t what we wanted.”
Today, Kim and her husband travel the world full time and Kim has turned her love of writing into a career. Since bucking the cubicle for a life of travel, they’ve trekked the tallest mountains in Nepal and descended into the world’s deepest canyon in Peru. Kim has walked solo across Spain and driven a rickshaw 3,000 kilometers through India. Today, she lives the life she used to only dream about. “Life is an adventure now,” she said. “I’ve truly come to believe that if we can find the courage to do the things that make us feel most alive, we do not only ourselves a favor but the world a favor too.”

Follow her story here.

9. Matt Kepnes, Normal Guy Turned Serial Traveler

Matt Kepnes
Matt Kepnes
Matt Kepnes
In 2005, Matt Kepnes went to Thailand with a friend and, while in the city of Chiang Mai, he met five backpackers on a bus. Listening to them talk about extended travel inspired Matt to leave his job and travel more. As they all spoke about how insane only getting two weeks a year was, Matt began to think about making a change. Kepnes tells BuzzFeed that he realized they were living his dream and he thought to himself, Why not me too? When he came home, he quit his job.
In July 2006, he set off on a yearlong trip around the world. That was seven and a half years ago. He’s never looked back. Travel is what makes him happy and he finds a way to make this lifestyle work. He has now been to over 70 countries, worked various jobs to be able to fund this, and now he is able to help others learn that traveling isn’t as hard or expensive as they think. “I remember being scared and worried when I was planning my trip,” he said. “Every fear went through my head but being on the road taught me that the hardest part is getting the courage to walk out the door. The rest is a cakewalk. Everything on the road works itself out.” Learn more about Matt and his story by visiting his website.

10. Jill Inman, Made Her Dreams A Reality

Jill Inman
Jill Inman
Jill Inman
A ship is safe in the harbor, but that’s not what ships are built for. This very statement serves as inspiration at the heading of Jill Inman’s blog. She wanted to embark on an around-the-world trip because she had long dreamt of seeing the world in a way that many people only daydream about. So one day, she decided to make her dream a reality. She left, and never looked back.
She has since visited 64 countries. Inman told BuzzFeed, “While my passport stamps and screensavers from the 64 countries I’ve visited are the recognizable signs of my adventures; the lasting lessons learned from the challenging times and unforgettable memories from the amazing times are the real reasons I continue to travel.” She wants to encourage others to do the same. She believes that seeing the world allows her to be more adaptable to life’s curve balls. “I view the world with so much more curiosity,” she said. Read more about her adventures on her personal blog.

11. Kate Hall, Needed a Life Change

Kate Hall
Kate Hall
Kate Hall
One moment Kate Hall was on the phone to her boyfriend telling him they had no money for dinner that evening and the next moment she found herself telling him that they had to leave the UK because her heart was telling her to do so. She thought to herself, Life shouldn’t be this hard.
Fast-forward two years and Kate has cured a 5-year-old depression, started her journey into self-employment, and has traveled the world. She roamed the Red Light District in Amsterdam, spent six months in Greece, partied under the Eiffel Tower, and will soon be getting married in Frankfurt, Germany.
When asked about her travels, Kate told BuzzFeed, “Sometimes, you need to take that leap of faith and follow your heart.” Follow Kate’s ongoing journey by visiting her blog.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

life update!! adventures in dublin, brussels, & cadiz.

"to live is the rarest thing in the world. most people just exist" - oscar wilde

I know i'm desperately in need of a blog post but i can't even begin to explain how busy life has been. the good kind of busy. the happy kind of busy, so all is well.

Since January, I have been to dublin, galway, and the Cliffs of Moher which took us really all over the western coast of ireland; Brussels and Bruges which are in belgium, and last weekend I was in Cadiz for Carnaval. It has been such a whirlwind and so much fun. But for the next month, I will be in Madrid and then April will get crazy with traveling again.

Let's start with Dublin, so Elli and I went to Dublin to go see Maroon 5 in concert, which was incredible. I forget how much I LOVE live music. And how that's how all music should be. The 02 in Dublin was a really small venue, so it was great and Adam Levine is a dream boat, so swoon. We ran around Dublin for the day and saw the Dublin Castle, the Guinness factory, Trinity College that houses the Long Room and the Book of Kells. We also took a bus at 6am to Galway, then from there did a bus tour and went on this hike up a hill in Ireland farm country (and saw goats) on our way to the Cliffs of Moher. The Cliffs of Moher were PHENOMENAL. It's like one of those places that you've always dreamed of being and you always wish you could stay. It was worth the whole day of winding roads and being cramped on a bus to get there. It was super windy and cold, and my hair was super hat hair-esque, but nevertheless it was beautiful. AND harry potter and the half blood prince (HP6) - the cave scene, where voldemort hides the locket horcrux was filmed there, which makes it even more awesome.




Elli and I ate our way through Dublin which was full of lots of veggie soups and potatoes. We went to the Guinness Factory and did the tour, went to Whelan's - which is the bar in PS I LOVE YOU, and got to see lots of happy ginger irish people that you dream of when you think of Dublin.





There were lots of birthday celebrations in mid-january, we did a super cute and fun birthday 26th dinner on the night of my birthday and we went out the weekend before to celebrate both Brittani's and my birthday. And on Sunday morning, we did birthday brunch for Brittani's birthday. Before I left LA, we did a family birthday dinner which was really fun, so I'm glad I got to celebrate my 26th yr all over the world. :)

After that, we had a puente (long weekend, with Friday off of work) at the end of January. Elli and I hopped a plane to Belgium for the holiday and had lots of fun. It was still cold in Belgium but not as cold as we thought it would be. We ate lots of frites (fries), gofres (waffles), and chocolate! It was a quick but good weekend. We spent Friday in Brussels and got to see everything. Brussels was super urban, and reminded me a little bit of Budapest, and a little bit like Dublin mixed, but a little dirtier (unclean). It felt like a very immigrant city, like lots of international people. Everyone in Brussels also spoke French, with a little English which was really interesting because Amsterdam is really close and in Amsterdam the dominant language is English. So I was super surprised that we went a lot of places and there were people that spoke very little English. On Saturday, we took a 1 hr train to Brugge. And I LOVED Brugge!! It was what you picture Belgium to be - with canals and little houses lined in a row, very much like Amsterdam but smaller and amazingly beautiful. Elli and I ate lunch at this super cute cafe that made their own quiches by hand and they had more veggie soup!! We bought lots of belgian chocolate truffles while we were in Brugge too. My favorite thing we did was that we took a boat ride through the canals, which made us really cold but it was so worth it. We might have drank our weight in tea that weekend as well, to help keep us warm.




February went by really quickly, and I can't believe it's already March!! Last weekend, Elli and I went to Carnaval in Cadiz with her roommate Ale (whose is from Cadiz) and his friends. I almost didn't go because I got a really awful stomach virus and was in bed with a fever for 4 days straight. I couldn't even get out of bed and walk to the doctor, it was that bad. I called my dad and he thought I was dying, and he wrote me an email later saying he had been praying for me everyday (not that he doesn't already) but you get how rough it was. Carnaval was really fun. Julio (Ale's friend) drove us in his car, so on Friday morning/afternoon we packed up and piled into the car, 3 boys and Elli, and me on a 6.5 hr car ride to Cadiz. It was fun to see Spain from a different point of view and go on a road trip. We played lots of car games, looking for signs starting with the Alphabet, and Happy/Sad slash honking the horn game. Julio, Luis, and Adrian thought it was really funny that all we wanted to do was play games all weekend (car games/drinking games). The car wasn't as fun as you would think though, I slept some, but it was pretty cramped for 6.5 hrs. The weekend was really good though. On friday night, we watched the Chirigotas perform on TV at Ale's house and we ordered Telepizza. I couldn't eat pizza because I was still sick and hadn't eaten all week, so Elli and I made rice and veggies that I ate. Which is funny because I ate rice while everyone ate pizza. On Saturday, we woke up around 1 and we saw people singing on floats (kind of like chirigotas) but in a parade, and we drank Moscatel all day (which is the typical Carnaval drink of Cadiz). Day drinking was super fun and we finally went home around 7ish. We took a two hour nap, then started cutting out felt patches, and sewing them on our costumes, it was so rushed and a little cutre (chinsy) because we had like 10 mins to do it. But it was fun, we made spanish flag patches, airplanes, and world patches because we were Goose and Mav from Top Gun. We even had mustaches and aviators with our army green jumpsuits. We botteloned in the street most of the night and then ended up going to the carpa (tent) at like 5 or 6 in the morning to dance and drink more. And we finally made it home at like 7 or 8 in the morning, it was fun to see everyone's costumes and just be out all night. AND I have to tell you, Ale's house was awesome, it was right on the beach and the view of sunrise/sunset was amazing. Definitely lots of sun chasing these past two months. I haven't uploaded pictures from my phone to my computer of Cadiz yet, so I will have to put them in the next post.

So the past two months have been a whirlwind to say the least, but that's more becoming the norm of my life, and i don't particularly mind that. :) Also I'm reading the Divergent Series (I bought divergent in Dublin) and it's amazing. It's like Hunger Games and the Giver combined. I bought the next books in the series, on amazon UK and they are suppose to come this week!!!

Things to look forward to in the next month.... DAD'S TRIP!!! My dad is coming for spring break and I cannot wait!! We are going to barcelona, paris, and portugal. I miss him so much, I can't wait to spend time with him. Also Matt and Krystal are coming to Madrid the week before my dad comes which will be so fun because I will get to show them my city and I will get to talk to Matt about books. And it's finally getting warmer in Madrid, so sundress/tights and cardigan weather is here and that makes me so happy.

"Be who you are, not who the world wants you to be."

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Christmas in Sevilla, Madrid, and Los Angeles.

"We travel not to escape life, but for life not to escape us." -Anonymous

So I am desperately due for a blog post, and since jetlag has me up at crazy hours of the night and day, this is a perfect opportunity for an update.

So December started rough with being sick, but our weekend trip to Sevilla made Spain feel like Christmas and so it was just everything that I had really needed at that point. It was so nice to get to experience Sevilla at Christmas time because it just made feel even closer to my heart than it already is (if that's even possible).

I spent the rest of the month in Madrid. And then just before Christmas (on Christmas eve), I flew home to Los Angeles. I've got to say, Europe just does Christmas right. Especially Spain. Between the Christmas lights, Christmas markets, our Christmas show and special events at school, it just felt magical (yes I know that's corny but I don't have any other words to describe it).

In Madrid, I got to shop at a ton of Christmas markets mostly for things that I brought home to friends and family (and some things for me too). Some of my favorite markets were the one in Plaza de Jacinto Benavente and of course the Mercado de Artisaniía (Artisan Market) in Plaza de España.



One of my favorite things about Christmas in Madrid (and in Spain in general) is that there a HUGE focus on nativities and Los Reyes Magos (the Three Wisemen). Instead of Santa bringing you gifts, or sitting on Santa's lap, and writing a letter of things you wish for to Santa, children in Spain write to Los Reyes and The Three Wisemen came to school one day so that children could sit on their laps and give them their letters. Growing up, we we didn't believe in Santa Clause because my dad is a pastor. We always knew that he didn't exist. Actually one Christmas, when she was like 7 years old, Kelsey pretended to be Santa and she wrapped presents under the tree from Santa because she felt left out and different from other families. So spending Christmas, not really talking about Santa Clause, wasn't a big deal for me. But talking about Los Reyes so much, I thought it felt more important and focused on religious reasons for Christmas (aka Jesus being born), which made it just as special.




Some of the fun Christmas adventures that I got to do included the Navibus (a 2 euro open top bus that takes you around Madrid just to see the Christmas lights), our Secret Santa friend Christmas dinner/ pizza party at my house, Reina Victoria Christmas dinner with Elli's roommates, and our Calasancio teacher Christmas dinner with Javier, Maria Fuente, Cristina, Ana, Raquel, Arantxa, and me. School was crazy because the last week before break there was literally something special everyday. We had an Advent Candle Lighting Service, making Christmas cards and taking them to the retirement home, visiting with Los Reyes, practicing Christmas Carols for the Christmas show, and the day of the Christmas show. It was such a busy December but it was so much fun and it really made the season feel like Christmas and feel special, which is a big feat when you are so far from home.



The weekend before I went back to Los Angeles, Kelly and I went to Segovia on a day trip as well, which was super fun. We got to see the Roman Aqueduct, the Catedral, and the Alcázar. It was beautiful with lots of country side and it was such a small, quaint, super quiet town. And there is such a place in my heart for towns like that. :)





After Segovia, I flew out of Madrid on Christmas Eve early early AM. I had a connection from Mad - London and got to sleep a little during the first leg. After a brutal 12.5 hr flight from London to LA, I was finally home. My California Christmas was everything I wished it to be. It was full of adventures with friends and family, hiking, the beach, being outside in 70-80 degree weather, biking with my dad, and eating all the foods that I love and miss (21 choices, Gringos, Taco Deli, Star Cafe). It was such a good trip home, but I'm glad to be back in Madrid. And next week Elli and I are going to Dublin to see Maroon 5 in concert!!

Sunday, December 15, 2013

Manoli.

“There’s nowhere you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be." - john lennon
Manoli.





Last weekend, Elli and I went back to Sevilla for Christmas. When I lived there, I was there from January to June. So I had never gotten to experience Sevilla at christmas time. And I know it sounds corny, but it was pure magic in every way. Christmas lights plus el ambiente de sevilla, just felt like home.



I was super sick with the flu and bronchitis and debated not going to Sevilla on Thursday night. But I'm so glad I did. It was like in the high 60s, like 15-20 degrees warmer than madrid - which was exactly what I needed. And I don't how its possible to be healed with out knowing that you needed it, but that city just heals me in every way.


I finally saw Manoli on Friday afternoon/evening. And it was everything I dreamed it would be and more. I spent 3 hours just talking to Manoli about life, love, and dreams for the future. The time I spent with her made me remember, just how much we are like souls. How we have strong personalities, but that makes you love stronger and harder. And how she believes in being the best person you can be, she reminded me that I need to strive to be the best version of myself, which I often forget to make a priority in this crazy world. She told me that when you are really in love, you'll stay together, and when you're really in love, you'll know that it's meant to be. She made me remember that, while nice things make you more comfortable to live, living within your means in enough, and loving your family is more important.

She is just one of the best people I know. And she changed my life completely. It's crazy because when you think about all the people who have a profound influence on your life. And I think of her. I think of how I would be such a different person, without Sevilla, but especially without her. She's just one of those people that is so very close to my heart, and I'm so thankful for that.